People like to say that social media is a conversation. As a business, you are no longer simply broadcasting to your customers, you are communicating with them. A blog is certainly a business grown in the social media garden, but sometimes bloggers write as if they were delivering a key note speech, not conversing with their friends.

If you are really looking to have a conversation, start by talking that way. Unless you blog in academic circles, there is no need to write like you are looking for a Pulitzer Prize. Just tell me your thoughts, and I’ll tell you mine. As you can see, I write to communicate and converse, not to show-off and amaze. I’m not impressed by long words and complex sentences. I am impressed by great ideas and insightful opinions.

For most of us we just want to hear what you have to say. We are building relationships through blog posts, comments, @replies, and Facebook discussions. In a virtual world removed from emotion, it starts and finishes with language. Talk with me, not at me.